Can a man sexual performance cause divorce?
By Pastor Akindele Victor
I got this question from my WhatsApp group chat..this is my response to this; When you say performance, it may be in two forms high sexual performance or low sexual performance.
Some women complain their husbands’ sexual urge is too high and they can’t endure it while some women complain of lack of sexual attention and satisfaction.
In any case, sexual frustration can lead to divorce if not carefully handled. In times past, people hide this feelings because it is a taboo to talk about sex publicly, so they hide under another excuses to ask for divorce when in a real sense they are not just balanced emotionally.
So, whatever couples will do to save their marriage, they should do it as long as it is within the coverage of their marriage.
If you have a spouse who have high sexual drive, please give him or her attention and try your best to satisfy him or her sexually. In other hands, if your spouse have low libido, be considerate as a spouse to adjust a little to his or her level while you do everything possible together to solve the problem.
I have earlier pointed out that low sexual performance or incompatible sexual drive could have adverse effects on any marriage.
PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS TO LOW SEXUAL PERFORMANCE.
For low sexual performance, there are ways to handle that:
- Couples should avoid constant verbal assault on each other, this can cause lost of happiness and as such serious lost of interest in one’s spouse thereby results to low sex drive and consequently low sex performance. Sex is of the heart and also psychological, couples need to understand this. A happy soul will carry a happy and healthy body, do everything within your power to avoid constant arguments, misunderstanding and fighting, these things leads to low sexual performance among couples.
- Avoid over stressing your self. Too much stress can result to low sex performance. Couples need good health to enjoy their sex life.
- Lack of constant flow of blood in the system could lead to low sex performance, this is why doctors recommend physical excise to burn some calories for free flow of blood. Both man or a woman could use supplement that will ensure constant flow of blood in the body. For example: 1. Calcium, magnesium and zinc 2. Omega 3 supplement 3. Ginkgo bilobia. These supplements are very good for healthy living. (You can browse them for more information, they are very affordable and I can help you get one if you need it. Chat or text 08037730716). Or chat me privately if you need more guide on this.
- Spiritual attack can cause low sex performance, it is not bad if both spouses can unite to be frank with what is happening to a partner or both asexually and present it to the maker of marriage which is God. It is not canal for couples to present their sexual cases to God for solutions and better performance. He is the creator, He knows how best to handle it because He created marriage for companionship so He knows that sexual dissatisfaction could lead to frustration in a marriage. The devil equally know this, so you should not take anything for granted so the devil will not take advantage of your ignorance. You can present your sex life in prayers and God will answer. Happiness in your marriage is His concern, and that is why we are here.
God hate divorce, devil want divorce. Do everything within your power as a couple to save your marriage from the wish of the devil to fulfil the will of God.
Couples should take care of themselves physically, emotionally and health wise to have a peaceful and blissful home.
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Pastor Akindele Victor
May God bless your marriage in Jesus name. Your marriage shall be peaceful and be fruitful in Jesus name. Amen