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CYCLES OF MARRIAGE YOU NEED TO KNOW: – Cycle Five
By Pastor Akindele Victor.
CYCLE FIVE: COMPROMISE CYCLE:
When you see couples becoming a role model, it doesn’t just happen, they have lots of stories to tell. This is what I called experienced couples.
At this cycle couples are beginning to settle matters in their mind by accepting the nature of their partner.
It is now done on the partner that this man or this woman is what he or she is. For this reasons, couples will begin to compromise, accommodating the partner’s flaws and adjusting to the reality of whom they actually married for the sake of love they share.
When you both begin to face the reality of marriage and acknowledge your partner’s weaknesses. You eventually realize anger and malice does not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with your differences, both of you begin to compromise here and there and adjust to each other.
1). Couples begins to consciously ignore
those attitudes that are irritating to him or
her in the past. Love covers multitude of
of sins says the bible.
2). Couples have now realise this is marriage
and not friendship.
3). Couples result more to communication
and not argument.
4). They have come to settle for whom they
married. It is an issue of mindset at
5). Couples now placed more value on the
marriage above any selfish expectations.
6). At this cycle, couples enjoy more
forgiveness and comprises by experience
knowing that malice and anger can not
solve any problem.
Note back: It does not take years to get to this cycle, the moment you begin to compromise for each other in your marriage for the sake of happiness, you are already there. It may take place the same month or year of your marriage. It is a collective responsibility, it is not only by one partner. If it is lope sided, it will lead to frustration in marriage.
The bad side of troublous cycle and this compromise cycle (4&5) is that the risk of break ups in marriage is high ONLY IF COUPLES ARE NOT READY TO COMPROMISE AND ADJUST FOR EACH OTHER.
If couples could cross these stages, they can be successful in their marriage. Nothing can separate them anymore. Be bless in your marriage in Jesus name. Amen.
Remember : IT IS NOT HOW BIG A HOUSE IS BUT HOW HAPPY A HOME IS. BE HAPPY IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
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