CYCLES OF MARRIAGE YOU NEED TO KNOW: – CYCLE SIX
By Pastor Akindele Victor.
CYCLE SIX: SETTLEMENT AND ACCEPTANCE CYCLE
So far i have discussed on five cycles which are:
1) Honey moon cycle
2). The competition cycle
3) Disenchantment cycle.
4). Troublous cycle
5). Compromise cycle
Cycle six in marriage is SETTLEMENT AND ACCEPTANCE cycle. From your compromises, you consciously come to settle and accept the person in your spouse not because he or she is perfect but you have come to celebrate both his or her strength and weaknesses.
When it dawned on you that some things are just part of your partner and may never change. You resigned from anger, abuse and quarrel and choose to accept them, lovingly adjust to them and enjoy them regardless of their weaknesses.
You are no longer irritated by the attitudes, you now laugh over what used to make you angry, sometimes, those things that made you angry before now become fun to both of you.
You come to love your spouse for whom he or she is. Your priority now is the future of the family. You are now concern about how to succeed together and no longer emphasize on what makes you happy or what makes you sad. At this stage, couples have come to settle down in their mind for each other.
It is very important for couples to know that challenges that confronts marriages are like water under the bridge which will surely flow by and never return.
Unfortunately, some are impatient to wait and get through the cycle before they conclude the marriage can not work.
All you need is just patient, with time you will get there.
PEACE TO YOUR FAMILY IN JESUS NAME.
Wait for the last cycle seven (very important).
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