CYCLES OF MARRIAGE YOU NEED TO KNOW: – CYCLE THREE
By Pastor Akindele Victor.
CYCLE THREE: DISENCHANTMENT CYCLE
Naturally, couples entered into marriage with lots of expectations which may be an illusion.
At this cycle, couples are coming to be in terms with whom they actually married to. They suddenly woke up from their sleep to face reality of whom their spouse really is.
Attitudes is like fire, you can’t hide it, it only needs time to show up. However, we need to know that there is no single partner that is perfect.
Previously, couples may be like a saint mostly to please the spouse. This is what you may experience during the HONEY MOON stage. This is why couples should dwell more and longer in their honey moon before they cross to contentious cycle.
At the honey moon cycle, there are lots of covering up and overlooking of many faults because of PASSION that still exist between the two. This is why everything should be done to keep the passion on. The moment passion declines, CONTENTION and DISENCHANTMENT will set in. KEEP FIRE OF PASSION ON NEVER LET IT DIE.
At any time couples enter into this cycle of DISENCHANTMENT , they will begin to encounter the following i will outline below. These things can only be tolerated or accommodated during HONEY MOON.
At that cycle, love is still stronger than death, so love can cover multitudes of sin. As long as the feel good drug (DOPAMINE, you can google it) is still present, no couple will want to hurt each other but if this is lacking in the marriage anything goes.
Please, go back and start practicing those things you do during your honey moon in order to keep passion burning in your marriage.
Honeymoon is expected to be for lifetime. It is a practice and not a calendar time.
These are what couples will witness at the DISENCHANTMENT cycle:
1). Couples eyes are now opened to attitudes
they have overlooked
2). A partner or both will become irritated by
by the attitudes of the other.
3). For couples who truly love each others, it
is a period of caution and corrections.
4). It is a period of character moulding and
It is not the end to the marriage, but it is one of the cycles that determine how the home will end.
Be careful what you do and say because it is just a passing face, you will find your love again.
PASSION FOR YOUR SPOUSE WILL NOT DIE IN JESUS NAME. AMEN.
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