HAPPINESS IN RELATIONSHIPS IS A COLLECTIVE RESPONSIBILITY
By: Akindele Victor
It takes two to form a relationship, a tree can never be called a forest.
There can never be anything like marriage if there is no
union of two.
Consequently, happiness will not be balanced if not by the
contributions of two.
Where a partner is a giver of most things that brings joy while the other partner is just at the receiving end, that does not guarantee a permanent and a continuous atmosphere of
joy and happiness.
The questions that comes to mind are:
1). Who says good morning first and always?
2). Who often tell a partner I love you ?
3). Do you wait for your partner to create an atmosphere of
laughter or you make it happen ?
4). Who always make advances of romance in the home ?
5). Who always discipline the children in the home if they are
already in the picture ?
6). Are you equally interested in the welfare and joy of each
other or is just one sided ?
7). Is showing of care and affection mutual or just from a
8). Are you both physically and spiritually committed to the
progress and success of that relationship ? etc.
Your responses to these questions and many others will
show if both partner are committed to ensuring happiness
and success or it is just a partner who is carrying on the
If all these are lopsided, I tell you a partner is about to break
down in frustration.
Any partner who does these and many others most is a giver
and the pillar of that relationship while the other is a receiver.
You can help your partner by contributing your own quotas
to the good of your marriage.
Everything mentioned above are to be a collective responsible
to ensure continuous and quality happiness in a home.
I pray for the reader of this article now :
YOUR MARRIAGE SHALL BE PEACEFUL AND BE FRUITFUL
IN JESUS NAME.
Say a big amen to that.
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