- Constant admiration and usage of romantic languages. Songs of Solomon 7:1-7
Couples need to continue to admire each other as they confess it, this will unite them soul and body. Eyes contact with one another, hugging, holding of hands and walking tether goes a long way for sustaining passion among opposite sex admiration and romantic language works like fire, if you are good in this as a person those who left you will keep missing you because of the effects of your words of admiration, you can imagine if couples can inculcate this attitude of appreciating each other, there will never be a moment of crisis.
Can you learn from these scriptures? Hope you are not too holy than God in your marriage? Songs of Solomon 7:1-7
“How beautiful are thy feet with shoes, O prince’s daughter! the joints of thy thighs are like jewels, the work of the hands of a cunning workman.
Thy navel is like a round goblet, which wanteth not liquor: thy belly is like an heap of wheat set about with lilies.
Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are twins.
Thy neck is as a tower of ivory; thine eyes like the fishpools in Heshbon, by the gate of Bathrabbim: thy nose is as the tower of Lebanon which looketh toward Damascus.
Thine head upon thee is like Carmel, and the hair of thine head like purple; the king is held in the galleries.
How fair and how pleasant art thou, O love, for delights! This thy stature is like to a palm tree, and thy breasts to clusters of grapes”.
Tell me how on earth wills a woman or a man be flattered like this and his / her heart will not drop for you. No couple that will enjoy this constantly that will ever think of divorce.
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