HOW TO SUSTAIN LOVE AND AFFECTIONS FOR EACH OTHER AS A COUPLE. Fourth post.

Learn to stay together body to body songs of Solomon 7:8-9, Gen. 2:25. 

This is another principle that must be applied in marriage. Couples should stay close to each other while talking or lying down. Lean on each other’s body, it keeps the body and soul warm for each other and enhance affection. It gives a feeling of “my spouse wants me close and equally appreciates it. Let there be no gap in-between the two of you, learn to stay together body to body it result to soul ties.

 Be contended with what you have in your spouse. Prov. 5:15-19

Contentment is necessary in life, you will always see things you like and don’t have or that, you can never have. Sometimes you see a thing that seemingly looks better than yours. The only solution to keep focused is contentment. This is not only necessary in material things, it also apply to marriage, you need to be satisfy with what you have because you don’t always have it all as you want it.

Lack of appreciating what we have in our partners is one of the causes of cheating in marriage. You want it big, but you got it small. You want it tall but you got it short. You want it white as snow but you got it as black as charcoals. How do you want it, how did you get it, don’t be disappointed love it the way you have it. You saw it before you agree to it so be contented with it.

What do you think will happen if you want a white horse but have a black, will you go and steal? Then you will be called a thief. This is why it is adultery when you sleep or admire another person besides your spouse. When your desire is with some other person(s) outside your marriage you have succeeded in killing your passion for your spouse instead of building it up. But the more you appreciate and focused on what you have, the more you see beauty in it, the more you will see reasons why you should love it.

Never try to share your love or affection with another partner. Prov. 5:23

There is an adage that says SIN IS SWEET BUT IS DEADLY. There is a serious danger in going out of your marriage to gratify your desire, you may never come back. This does not mean you will remain with the person immediately, you can still be with your spouse but your affection and attention is already sever and divided. It a dangerous thing to have your soul scattered in your marriage. Some never come out of it. It is an automatic passion killer for your spouse.

The word of God in proverbs 5:23-27 encourages us to keep our heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee. Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee. Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established. Turn not to the right hand nor to the left: remove thy foot from evil.

May you have a happy and successful home in Jesus name.

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