POWER OF EX ON YOUR MARRIAGE THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW.
BY: AKINDELE VICTOR
After messing up with a married man in the name of money or pleasure, Will you be bold to ask God to give you your own husband?
Has it never occurred to you that sex before marriage makes you a second hand wife before you even get into marriage? Those who have sold their dignity and pride will have nothing to keep for their husbands.
Some girls never be themselves each time they see the men who laid them before marriage.
And I ask: how would you want your ex to see your husband when you eventually marry? If you are married already and still keep extra-marital affairs, you are only sowing seeds for your children. Just be prepared because you have opened a channel for the spirit of immorality to dominate your children. They will be perverted sexually before your eyes. Married men will sleep with them and theres nothing you can do to stop them. Some of them can never be faithful in their marriage except they are born again.
WHEN A MAN IS GIVEN TO EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIRS HE DOES NOT HAVE VALUE FOR MARITAL COVENANT
Marriage is a covenant recognized by God. Anybody who breaks the covenant of marriage becomes an enemy of God. If you have your home, what is it then you are still looking for outside? What happen to the covenant of love you made with the wife of your youth, Be contended with what you have.
PROMISCUITY COULD BE AS A RESULT OF AN INSATIABLE URGE FOR SEX
Some people are involved in sex outside their home because of the fact that the spouse can not handle the partners sexual urge. One of the problems of sexual practices before marriage is exposure to too many sexual practices with different kinds of men or women of different sizes and fantasy.
By the time such girl or man gets married, the libido piled up over the years, may be difficult for the eventual partner to meet, thus setting the stage for promiscuity, just to quell the insatiable sex drive.
To achieve this, some may look outside for a sugar daddy or a chewing gum boy. Some may even rekindle the flame with a former boy or girl friend who may be equally married.
IT IS ALWAYS DIFFICULT TO GIVE UP SEXUAL-TIES ESPECIALLY WHEN THE FRIENDSHIP IS STILL THERE
Did you know that it is not all old friendship that ends in chaos? Some end without bitterness.
In such situation, the ex-lovers remain friends, who may still communicate on platonic ground. Each time they meet the tendency for them to evolve non-verbal fantasy of the past that may snow-ball into sexual escapade cannot be ruled out.
Because of their closeness in the past, it is better to break the soul-tie on Jesus name to avoid regrets.
YOUR FORMER BOY OR GIRL FRIEND CAN STILL BECOME YOUR LOVER EVEN AFTER YOU ARE BOTH MARRIED IF YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM/HER
Statistics show that it is not all that infidel that actually set out to do so. Soul-tie pressure emanating from sexual practices with old friends that could not translate into marriage often spark off this ugly side of life if not checked.
This is usually a situation that is common place among students of higher learning and the youth corps members.
Note: read more of soul tied in chapter six
IF VIRGINITY IS NOTHING IN THE SOCIETY TODAY, WHY WOULD MEN CHASE YOUNGER GIRLS AROUND EVEN WHEN THEY HAVE A WIFE AT HOME?
Married men go after young girls they refer to as sweet sixteen these are girls who are supposed to be preparing for their own homes.
The question is why are they always the target of married men?
Oh, how I wish that girls should know that their tender lives are very important, and must be protected.
For married men to go after younger girls shows that they are unique.
TEENAGE GIRLS ARE LIKE MORNING FLOWERS WHICH BECOMES UNATTRACTIVE IF ROUGH HANDLED
Many ladies have lived their lives as married women even before they are actually married. Consequently, they tamper with their natural beauty such that the husband may not see anything attractive in the wife.
This may lead the man into extra-marital affairs. When girls have messed up their bodies before marriage, they almost always have nothing to boast of before their husband. This is the reason for always asking if there is still honey in your moon, after messing yourself up before marriage. Do your best not to give the real stuff of your life to a stranger only to keep the chaff for your husband.
LOVE FOR A SPOUSE IS NOT A BARRIER TO ADULTERY; IT TAKES LOVE AND THE FEAR OF GOD
Irrespective of how you feel towards your spouse, you need the fear of God in you to keep you focused on your marriage. Temptations of promiscuous life will always come the way of man, but only the reverence to God and the knowledge of Him will help you to overcome.
ADULTERY – CAUSES EFFECT AND CONTROL
Adultery is believed to be sex affairs between a married man and woman or married man and single girl or married woman and a single man, whether secretly or openly.
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