TIPS ON HOW TO SAFEGUARD YOUR VIRGINITY AS SINGLES DURING YOUR FIRST LOVE _ FIRST POST

MOST GIRLS LOSS THEIR VIRGINITY IN THEIR FIRST LOVE AND IT ALWAYS RESULTS TO EMOTIONAL BREAKDOWN BECAUSE THE RELATIONSHIP MAY STILL BREAK UP. YOU WILL HAVE TO MEND YOUR WOUND ALONE—–BE WISE!!!!.

At a tender age, mostly at primary and secondary levels, girls come to terms with what sex is all about. Majority lose their pride to so called first love which means the whole to them at that moment.  Any girl who is still found a virgin when the first love has gone is considered lucky, perhaps, she has a special place in the heart of God.

The stage of first love is the stage, where girls find it difficult to put their body under control; it takes the grace of God to come out of the first love experience unhurt as a girl. This is as a result of the so called uncontrolled “LUST”. In the name of “LOVE” you have for that young man.

At that stage, you tend to give him your heart and your body; soon he flies away and perches on another girl’s laps. First love may not lead to marriage. You need to learn how to keep your body because anything can happen.      

REMEMBER VIRGINITY ONCE LOST IS LOST FOR EVER—- NO TEARS CAN BRING IT BACK TO SHAPE —– RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!

We need to know that not al lost it willingly. Some happened out of ignorance, some girls who lost their pride no longer control their crave for sex did so because a man actually promised them heaven and earth only to dash their hope. I have seen so many in this my little time on earth, unfortunately, not all do lead to conjugal marriage  at last.

A FIRST TIME SEXUAL EXPERIENCE CAUSES YOU TO LIVE AT THE MERCY OF MEN/WOMEN.

Remember the medicine to control sex is never to attempt it once. God designed sex to be experienced first in marriage. Then, it will produce a bond between a man and the wife. But when a woman or a man starts experimenting with sex, he or she must always long for partners to satisfy the urge. As a woman, once you release your self into sex, you will always run after men not only because you think you love them, but just to cool off when ever the drive comes. This is dangerous and the bible warns that we should flee from fornication. Avoid it so that it may be well with your soul

VIRGINITY IS THE PRIDE OF A WOMAN SO KEEP IT. DO NOT GIVE IT TO THE DOG(S) ELSE THEY WILL TURN BACK AND BITE YOU

If virginity is not an influence on the society, Why do men after mingling with the so called civilized ladies, dump them and marry innocent fine young girls else where.

Girls, I want to tell you that virginity is your pride any day anywhere .Therefore forget about the erroneous believe the society is giving you. The so called play boy who is sleeping with you now that you are in the secondary school or in the university, when it comes to marriage; did you know that the same man will never look your way?

By then you will have become an old cargo. Then, he will look out for a clean new girl to marry, what will become your fate at such time?

No matter who engaged or is  courting you, as long as you are not married; I advice you to keep your pride never exchange it with anything.

ANYONE WHO ASKS FOR YOUR VIRGINITY IS A DOG AND A ROBBER

Most men in your first love are attracted by a girl’s blossom of flower, while men are moved by what they see women are moved by what they hear. This is the first stage of an uncontrolled lust for men who will come with a seemingly genuine mind with everything centered on getting you to sleep with them.

What men do now is to tell a girl, I want to marry you, because every girl wants to get married, hence they don’t give a second thought as long as the man is a guy of their dreams. But, I tell you many of such people come with deception to capture your attention.

Many girls have become victims of broken heart in that way so run from a man who is asking you to sleep with him.

That same man may have many girls he has promised marriage. But that should not  be your concern, what should bother you is how you will keep your body so he will not steal it except he marries you.

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