TO KEEP YOUR VIRGINITY IS NOT SAYING YOU SHOULD NOT RELATE WITH OTHERS BUT RELATE WITH CAUSION
You don’t need to be alone to keep your virginity.
All you need is to define your relationship without creating any avenue for rape.
From the on set let the opposite sex know that your relationship with him or her is platonic. It is important that you say it loud and clear. Do not assume that the other partner will also understand it, speak it out as you relate with others, NO SEX until marriage. Let it be your motto. That way, you will overcome rape and its attendant’s temptations.
HAVE FRIENDS, HAVE FUN BUT LET IT BE KNOWN THAT SEX IS A NO GO AREA ELSE THE FRIENDSHIP SHOULD STOP—BE WISE
Be a free man and a free woman, socialize select your friends and move on with life, Have fun, but not sex. Enjoy what so ever life has for you out there but not criminality
Do everything in the fear of God. Do not become useless to your society because you want to retain your pride. Be the best in your class, in your trade, in your local church and in that skill, find a way to affect life positively God knows how to reward you. Remember, men park their cars to look for sealed oil because it is valuable, it is for new cars not for topping.
Keep yourself, valuable men who value good and quality ladies will look for you.
The emphasis here is not mostly about virginity but about your emotion, health, tender heart and innocent mind. You need your virginity to keep all these things together under your control.
THE ABILITY TO WITHSTAND SEXUAL URGE AND TEMPTATION IS NEVER IN GIVING IT A TRY.
To keep yourself together is to keep your self from thinking about sex at your tender age. Avoid all the appearances of sexual practices. Never indulge in pornographic books, magazines or films. Avoid nude contact on your phone. Anything you know that will trigger sexual drive/urge within you is better avoided completely.
Indeed to remain chaste is to overcome sexual temptation through avoiding sexual acts that you willingly submitted yourself to, in the past such as masturbation etc.
PRAYER IS NEVER A SUBSTITUTE FOR ABSTAINING FROM SEX. PRAYER DOES NOT CONTROL SEXUALITY. IT TAKES CONSCIOUS, PERSONAL DETERMINATION. RUN! RUN!! RUN!!! IS THE ONLY SOLUTION.
When you are overwhelm with sexual urge, don’t start speaking in tongues, don’t waste your time in binding and loosing. You can never bind or loose what God has already put inside of you. It is more or less praying against the growth of your sexual organs. As the organs grow , the feelings grow with it .But it is under your control if you don’t let it loose.
Listen! Never allow anyone to confuse you with the lie that if God does not want you to do it why did He put the feelings there? God put the feelings there to be useful to you whenever you are prepared for the responsibilities that follows it so that you will use it effectively in marriage ,To practice it outside marriage is sin.
No wonder 1 cor:7:2, SAYS TO AVOID FORNICATION LET EVERY MAN HAVE HIS OWN WIFE AND EVERY WOMAN HER HUSBAND”.
If you are not ready to be a wife or husband abstain from sex with conscious determination
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