TIPS ON HOW TO SAFEGUARD YOUR VIRGINITY AS SINGLES DURING YOUR FIRST LOVE – Third Post

SEXUAL URGE IS NATURAL AND NOT SATANIC OR DEMONIC BUT MIND HOW AND WHERE YOU SATISFY IT- MARRIAGE
Don’t think you are under demonic attack whenever you have the feeling of sex. It is natural as women’s menstrual circle, it must come at intervals. Get prepared at all times and avoid circumstances that will tempt you into it at that moment. It is better to seek wise counsel through faithful friends or stay in door at such times and, avoid watching the so called matured films.
You can play music and listen more to preaching that edifies, until the thought fissles out.
Remember, as long as you have never given your self to it, the thought will seldom come

VIRGINITY DOES NOT STOP SEXUAL SPARK IN YOUR BRAIN—— TAKE NOTE
That I am still a virgin why am I having the feeling of been touched.
As a girl or boy, you grow with the urge, don’t think that to be a virgin is to overcome sexual urge. But you can control because you have not yet gotten the experiences how it feels when together with an opposite sex. As soon as you give yourself to the urge at any age, you will always desire to have it satisfied.
Controlling at a point becomes difficult. Frankly, to have the urge is normal but to satisfy it anywhere and anyhow is abnormal. Just as you can not steal because you are hungry without being condemned, so you can not steal sex without facing judgment.

VIRGINITY GIVES YOU INNER STRENGTH TO BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR SEXUAL EMOTION IN LIFE AT ALL TIMES.
To remain chaste till marriage is to have power over abnormal sexual advantages from men or women. Recognize that you have natural Inner strength and self confidence to face any man or woman. This serves as your pride; you can not be a sex slave or a bedmate.

GOD CREATED SEXUALITY AND MADE PROVISION FOR THE FULFILLMENT WHICH IS IN MARRIAGE
At primary school age, are you ready for marriage? In your secondary school, are you ready for marriage? In the university are you ready for marriage? Why then are you associating with things that will trigger sexual feelings in your life? Since you know you are not ready for marriage, Why are you dating an opposite sex to the extent of becoming a bedmate or campus spouse?
You are only creating problems for your self. You will find yourself jumping from one man to another or one woman to another because you started what should have been practiced during marriage.
At this stage you need more focus than thinking of relationship. What you should be doing now is to focus your attention on your future and think of how to make it in life. When it is time for marriage, you will know and people around will support you and it will no longer be done in secret. Rather it becomes a public celebration.

TO AVOID FORNICATION LET EVERY MAN HAVE HIS OWN WIFE AND EVERY WOMAN HER OWN HUSBAND – 1 CORI 7:2. 2nd Cor. 7:1
Fornication is ravaging the world. Men no longer see anything wrong in it. Yet God’s command is that if you know that you cannot endure the urge for sex, then, get married because the urge must come.
Some ladies stay with a man who has not married them. When the relationship hits the rock, they quickly settle for another live in lover, who almost always ends up not marrying  them.
What is the need of sleeping in a man’s house, who is not your husband? Why would you man, invite a girl to your house when you know you are not ready for marriage? It is a sin to God and to your body.
If you want to marry and there is no money, you can pay the dowry and then, see your Pastor for church blessing. So you can start life together, not minding how small your beginning may be. Starting small does not mean that your end will be small too. Just have  vision and purpose  it with vigour in the unity of pursue. Hey! Are you single? Avoid fornication; get married.
Sometimes you have a genuine intention for a young girl or young man, for which reason we spend on him/her. Naturally, we expect the boy or girl to reciprocate by warming our beds with his/her body. But have you ever asked yourself if that is God’s design for you?
There is no reason, big enough  to justify such relationships whether it is the first love  or not pre-marital sex that stretches into marriage is always of a low percentage. And, its even better not to  get involved, expecting marriage to avoid heartbreak.
Be reminded that most first love relationship do not eventually lead to marriage. Even when it does, there are always challenges because you have broken the hedge (Eccl. 10:8).

 

 

 

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