WHAT YOU MAY LIKELY LOSE DURING YOUR FIRST LOVE.
By: AKINDELE VICTOR
A GIRL MAY COPE WITH A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP IF SHE IS THE ONE THAT DECIDED IT, NO MATTER THE SEXUAL INVOLVEMENT BUT THAT MAY BE A BAD SIGNAL SENT TO YOUR NEW LOVER LACK OF TRUST
No relationship is inelastic. It is therefore better to opt out of a relationship tending towards sex before marriage to avoid being haunted in the future by your past. In that case, you find it easier to let go whatever may be valuable in that relationship.
Many have walked out of relationship to ensure that they do not show their nakedness to a man who is not their spouse. You too can.
DURING COURTSHIP A MAN WILL DO ANYTHING TO SLEEP WITH YOU
Your body is valuable. It is so precious that you cannot afford to make mockery of it through illicit sex.
A man can give you a car, build a house for you or part with fat bank account just for you to satisfy him with your body. That shows how valuable your body is, but remember God made it to be used to build a godly home.
Indeed, it is better to leave a relationship tending towards pre-marital sex and allow the man to regret not being able to get you to comply with his amorous advances, than for you to regret ever allowing him to have sex with you.
THE ONLY REGRET OF AN IMMORAL MAN IN A FAILED COURTSHIP/RELATIONSHIP IS THAT HE IS UNABLE TO HAVE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE WITH YOU
Did you know that men doff their hearts for ladies who refuse to sleep with them outside wedlock?
Ask people around and you will discover that it is such girls that people recommend for marriage. Are you a girl? Refuse to trade your pride with anything offered to you for sex outside marriage else you will loose your joy, your peace and your focus.
Some marriages have problems today because the woman have No say before the husband, she may not be bold to face the husband if she lost her virginity before marriage, that would imply that she lost her inner strength before the marriage was contracted. The man may feel that you have cheated on him even though you never known him before then.
A man can claim never slept with a woman in his life even though he sleeps with them daily, even outside his marriage but no woman can claim that she is still a virgin once she yields her body to a man in the name of LOVE(LUST), Never!.
You may say I only did it once. Will the world or your husband believe you? If he actually loves you, that will not stop him anyway. But you must ask for forgiveness from God and from your husband on the premise that this past will not be repeated in marriage
MANY GIRLS HAVE LOST THEIR VIRGINITY, WOMB, AND CONSCIENCE SENSE OF MORALITY AND THE GREATEST OF ALL, LIFE IN THE NAME OF LOVE.
Will you want that for your life as a girl? Many girls aborted and lost their wombs or even their lives in the name of love while the male partner will be alive to fulfill his own live and marry another girl. This is a painful experience you should never wish to have.
But anyone who fails to obey Gods command and abstain from sex until the right time should be prepared to face it.
How would you feel when after one or two abortion for a man, he leaves you for another woman? Even if you are the one who actually called off the relationship, your conscience will never stop chastising you because the blood of the children will keep reminding you of the past.
The bottom line of the story is that there is more regret in sex outside marriage than whatever pleasure that is derived from it.
Many partners regret ever having sex with an opposite sex before marriage especially when after effects like bareness, impotency, HIV/AIDs, gonorrhea, syphilis, etc, follow.
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