COMMON BUT HIDDEN SICKNESS DESTROYING MARRIAGES TODAY: SEE THE SOLUTIONS
Pastor Akindele Victor
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In marriage, both man and woman can easily tell you how they are feeling, people can easily identify the following as sicknesses that is common to a man or woman: headache, stomachache, pains in the body, malaria or fever, insomnia etc. Prompt attentions are given to these and many others. Even some have family doctors who quickly attend to this while some have made it an habit to have medical check ups once a month, these are very good. But there is an aspect of life our body reacts to on daily basis that is hidden, unpopular but very dangerous to human health, not only to health but have an untold dangers on our marriages. Some have the feelings manifest in their body but because this sicknesse have not been popularized or given more attentions, they never give it any thought, or rather never consider it to be a problem.
We see the side effects on marriages today, infidelity, polygamy, infighting, an unrest, cheating, men shifting attention to their work, sports, phones or rather cheating in marriage. These are just a few of the impacts of this popular but hidden sickness in human body. This issue is nothing but that emotions or hormones hidden in human body called libido which is largely connected to our sex drive. When in marriage you are always in the habit of avoiding sex with your partner, seek help immediately, it is called sickness though hidden and unpopular.
If you are asked to list sicknesses that human being could suffer in life, will you list dead or low libido as a sicknesses?
Many suffer low libido in life but never attribute it to be a serious sickness that requires urgent medical attention. This oversight may be because it is associated with sex which is a topic people shy away from whereas we are all product of “SEX”.
Low, decline or dead libido is a serious sickness that requires urgent attention, it is often linked to relationship issues, stress or tiredness, but can be a sign of an underlying medical problem, such as reduced hormone levels. Everyone’s sex drive is different and there’s no such thing as a “normal” libido. But if you find your lack of desire for sex is affecting your relationship, it is a good idea to get help. So please every married man or woman should put more attention to this aspect in their life, a fall in libido have serious untold consequences on your over all wellbeing and sustainability of your union between your husband or your wife. Low libido is a sign of unhealthy life.
This sickness is common among women than men for so many reasons, some physical and some psychological. Sometimes it’s both. Physical issues that can cause low libido include low testosterone in man, prescription medicines, too little or too much exercise, and alcohol and drug use. Psychological issues can include depression, stress, and problems in your relationship ranging from mood swing, child birth, unhappiness in marriage, stress, health challenges etc.
But the good news is that just like other sicknesses, low libido equally have medical solutions. Give attention to it, never allow ignorance or shame rob you of your good health. Can you ordinarily report to your doctor you are having problems of libido? if you cannot, that is shame. Just as you could look out for medications to tackle other popular sicknesses, please, look for medication for low libido to make your life better most especially as a married woman or man. In the cause of my counselling, either a man or woman or both, lost the blissfulness of their marriage the moment they told their partner I can’t give you sex today or I’m not in the mood or I don’t want it for no just cause while the partner is crazy in the mood. Not every man will be open to tell you how you hurt him/her that single day, just wait a while the result will show, then don’t look for help for what you actually caused. It happens to women also, not all wish to be rude or not submissive, there is an underline causes yet addressed.
I will show you some solutions to this popular but hidden sickness before I end this my article, but before then I will like to pint out what could be signs of low libido.
SIGNS OF LOW LIBIDO IN MAN AND WOMAN
Low libido could also be called low sex drive. It is a term used to describe a decrease in sex drive that can interfere with sexual activity. While low libido can cause tension in a relationship, fostering doubt and guilt in both partners, it can often be treated if both partners can be truthful to each others. Lots of men/women have low sex drive, for a lot of reasons. And there are many ways to treat it.
There is this idea you are supposed to live up to as a man or woman, “Real men or woman are always in the mood.” It is a sign that you are healthy. No one thing causes low libido. So it is crucial to talk to your doctor if you noticed your sex drive has dropped. Try not to feel embarrassed about getting help. Lots of people experience problems with their sex drive and seeking advice can be the first step towards resolving the issue.
When you start noticing these in your life as a man or woman, consult a doctor or call for counseling/solutions:
1. Lost of mood or lost of sexual interests.
2. Inability to become sexually aroused.
3. Lack of orgasm.
4. Painful intercourse.
5. Quick ejaculation.
6. Constant waist pains.
7. Body pains.
8. Lost of strength.
9. Loosing strength after sex.
11. Insomnia (difficulty in sleep).
SOLUTIONS TO TO THIS SICKNESS
Depending on the cause, possible treatments include:
1.Healthier lifestyle choices.
2. Improve your diet.
3. Get regular exercise.
4. Have enough sleep.
5. Cut down on the alcohol.
6. Reduce stress.
7. Change to a new medication, if the one you’re on is affecting
8. Testosterone replacement therapy for men
10. Consciously initiate an intimate relationship with your
11. Or go for organic supplement/medication that help in the free flow of blood in your system, this will guarantee good health and enhance your hormones for better sexual drive or satisfaction and your general well being. Drinking pains killer does not solve any of these problems associated with this sickness. If you really want to give your marriage the best and for your own general wellbeing, you may need SUPPLEMENTS to correct any abnormalities in your health system, prevention is not enough, cure is the best. I can recommend the type that have worked for me very well, take it just within 45 days you will be surprise the positive health experience you will have.
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In addition, there are some other causes of this sicknesses which includes relationship problems. One of the first things to consider is whether you’re happy in your relationship. Do you have any doubts or worries that could be behind your loss of sexual desire? Another thing is being in a long-term relationship and becoming overfamiliar with your partner, loss of sexual attraction, unresolved conflict and frequent arguments poor communication, difficulty trusting each other and physical sexual problems.
In conclusion, you only do not need treatment for sexual drive or satisfaction, this is just the sign you are okay, solving this problem will also help you to maintain your stamina, your general good health and sound healthy life. You will no longer complain of pains either in your waist or bones, nor more headache, you will have sound sleep among other benefits.
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Pastor Akindele Victor