This is the last article in this series of what could lead or cause sexual frustration in marriage. This is the summary of the previous articles:
Part one – sin
Part two – Painful intercourse,
Part three -hormonal imbalances
Part four – low libido
Part five – Lost of respect.
Part six – and now spiritual manipulation.

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Spiritual manipulations are one of the causes of marital failures and frustrations. Many couples ignore this aspect in marriage and they pay for it dearly. THIS IS WHY EVERY COUPLE SHOULD SOAK THEMSELVES IN PRAYERS ALWAYS. NEVER JOKE WITH YOUR PRAYER LIFE AS A COUPLE.

It is not everything that happens in your marriage that are natural, some are as a result of manipulations from external forces just to ruin the marriage.

One of those incidents is a message from a group i wrote below:
“Admin please post for me and hide my identity. I sent my wife to school where she is studying a degree program. One day, she openly told me that she was dating a man not at the school. And she was under the influence of the devil and that she will never do such a thing again. Is it possible to trust her again or I should end the marriage?”

Looking at that message, you realized that for several years that woman was under heavy demonic manipulation. She does not really know what was happening to her until those things got cleared from her. This is why she could opened up to her husband.

Such a woman will give this devilish man more attention than what she gives to her husband just because she is under an influence of spiritual manipulation. YOU DO NOT KNOW WHO IS PUTTING EYES ON YOU OR ON YOUR SPOUSE. PLEASE PRAY FOR EACH OTHER.

Another dangerous aspect of spiritual manipulation is this issue of spiritual husband or spiritual wife. Many doubt this but we can not ignore their influence practically happening around us. This could even lead to a sudden death of a partner if they are not strong in prayers because this spiritual husband or wife are desperate and very jealous over their host. If you feel all or any of the following, then you need to think twice:

  1. Spiritual husband or wife will make you resent your partner without a cause in order to have access to you at will.
  2. You get irritated easily with your partner without any reason.
  3. You see your self having sex in your dream that gives you pleasure or an experience that will last longer in your memory than that you have with your spouse physically.
  4. You do not derive any pleasure in making love with your husband or wife at all, so you will like to avoid it.
  5. You find it difficult to love your spouse.
  6. You may have constant and uncontrollable negative thought or wishes against your spouse. This is abnormal and devilish.

Spiritual husband or wife is a spirit of Satan – a demon. This husbands or wives are not natural but spiritual though at certain levels they appear physically.

Mostly, you cannot see a spiritual husband or wife with natural eyes but you can see them spiritually; in dreams, visions, in action, etc

Spiritual husband and wife are both to the married and unmarried. Spiritual husband is for women while spiritual wife for men.

How do you know you have a spiritual husband or wife?

How To Know You Have a Spiritual Husband or Wife?

  1. Sex in dreams

Every person having sex in dreams has a spiritual husband or wife. If in the past you had sex in dreams and you were not delivered, you have a spiritual husband or wife. It is Satanic to have sex in dreams. Sex in dreams are demons having sex with you. You have no power of your own to deny spiritual husband and wife sex – whether you like it or not – those demons will have sex with you until the day you are delivered. Please fast and pray for deliverance.

  1. Deprives the couples sex

Spiritual husband and wife deprives the couples sex – the demons do everything they can to deny married couples sex
You have heard wives tell their husbands to pay for sex, bringing excuses to deprive sex, married sleeping in different beds, etc
Spiritual husband and wife is one of the major causes of separation and divorce.

  1. Steals affection and attraction for your husband or wife
    To the married, there will be no affection and attraction for your husband or wife and the spiritual husband or wife will give you hatred for your spouse. You have heard women who say they have no feelings towards their husband’s – they have a spiritual husband. Though the demon steals affection and attraction towards your husband/wife, it gives you affection and attraction for other men/women – it leads to sexual immorality.

To the unmarried, you have heard women say things like, ‘men are dogs’, ‘I cannot be married’, etc – that is a spiritual husband speaking. It is a strategy of a spiritual husband to make sure that no other man will marry her but giving her to many men.
Every woman who says such words like ‘men are dogs’ is having sex with many men

  1. Gives you hate for your husband or wife
    Spiritual husband in a wife hates the husband, reason women hate their husbands and husbands do not understand why their wives hate them and vise-versa. To the unmarried, they are given hate of the opposite sex and especially to the person they are to get married to. This is why you find that at a certain times a person hates the person they are to get married to and other times loving them dearly – it is the spiritual husband or wife causing this. Apart from hatred, spiritual husband or wife gives anger and unforgiveness – this is a sign of no love in a person.
  2. Lead you to sexual immorality
    Spiritual husband or wife leads you to sexual immorality. They take away the affection, attraction and love for your husband or wife and exchange it for other men or women. Though these demons are having sex with you in dreams, they will lead you to have sex with other men and women but not with your husband or wife. To the unmarried, it is the same – the spiritual husband or wife will lead you to sex with many men or women. They may also give you pornography, masturbation, homosexuality and prostitution.

Many married men and women are in sexual immorality because of spiritual husbands or wives. Many unmarried men and women are in sexual immorality because of spiritual husband or wife.

  1. Denies you marriage
    Many women are unmarried because they are married to spiritual husbands and vise-versa. Many women are not married because when a man comes to marry them, the spiritual husband goes to torment that man either in dreams or physically and the man flees and vise-versa. Many women are married but spiritual husbands has denied them marriage and so are men. If you are married but there is no affection and attraction, depriving of sex, separation, arguments and fights, etc, this is a spiritual husband or wife denying you marriage though claiming to be married. Many women have been separated and divorced because of spiritual husbands and so are men.

Spiritual husband and wife are jealous – though they will give you to many men and women for sexual immorality, they will deny you marriage and torment every person who comes to you for marriage or torment your husband or wife in other to be sure you are only married to them. Spiritual husband lies to women that they are very beautiful for their husbands – they tell them that the husbands do not deserve them – it is the spiritual husband in control. They give women pride and stubbornness – this pride and stubbornness destroys everything in their life even marriage and hell awaits them if not delivered.

  1. Barrenness and Low Sperm Count

They cause barrenness and low sperm count. They may cause barrenness by blocking the tubes, miscarriages, giving you demons like fibroids, cancer, etc – they defile the womb to make sure you cannot have a child and to men they give them low sperm count even zero sperm. Reason some women have dreams giving birth, having babies and suckling them but in reality they are barren. This is because they have given birth spiritually with spiritual husbands but barren. Just know that when they are having sex with you in dreams, they are defiling you and stealing what is yours.

  1. Gives Diseases and sicknesses
    Spiritual husband or wife comes with diseases and sicknesses, and may deform you – this is to chain you completely to themselves
  2. Makes wives disrespect and not submit to their husbands
    Because you have another husband spiritually, you will disrespect the one you have. Spiritual husband makes a woman see her husband as useless, disrespect and not submit to him.
    Women with spiritual husbands are authoritative and controlling – they want to dictate for a man. They want the man to be like a wife or a child to them. These are not characteristics of a Godly woman. They lie, slander, speak against, abuse, fight, like arguments and quarreling – for they lack respect for their husbands and men.

These are some examples which reveal a spiritual husband or wife in a person and from these you can know if you have one.

If you have one, repent of your sins and your forefather’s sins and ask Jesus Christ to deliver you.

Jesus cannot deliver you if you do not accept your situation. A doctor cannot treat you if you do not accept you are sick. Accept you have a spiritual husband or wife for Jesus Christ to deliver you.

Spiritual husband and wife after destroying everything, they kill and take people to hell.

Give Jesus a chance in your marriage and cry to Him for help.

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