FIRST LOVE AND MARRIAGE: A MUST READ MESSAGE TO THE YOUTHS – PART TWO
By: AKINDELE VICTOR
A MAN/WOMAN ALWAYS HIDE THEIR PAST SEXUAL LIFE FROM THE NEW LOVER WHEN THE OLD RELATIONSHIP FAILS.
It is not a good thing to talk about, it leaves us with feeling of guilt instead of joy. Have you not noticed that every body will try to cover up their past life when they meet a genuine love.
The only way out is to stay clean and remain chaste if you are in a relationship because it may not lead to marriage.
There is boldness in chastity. When you are able to put your emotions under control, irrespective of the love you have for a partner, you will always stand bold at the end even if the partner decides to walk away and end the relationship, if you kept out of immorality.
KNOWING THAT YOUR WIFE/ HUSBAND WAS INVOLVE IN SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP BEFORE YOU MET ALWAYS BREEDS JEALOUSLY, SUSPENCE AND LOSS OF RESPECT.
As God is jealous over us, so are we. As God is love, so we have the element of love in us. Being so, wherever there is love, there is the tendency for jealousy to thrive, no woman will be happy to hear that her husband was a flirt neither will there be any man who will be happy with his wife when it comes to his notice that his wife has been a whore. It can spark off divorce, separation etc.
Knowing that your spouse has been a flirt will breed jealously, suspense and loss of respect. do you think that it will not be an honorable thing to tell your spouse how much you have waited and kept your emotions in check just to make sure you remain chaste for him / her?
Will this not enhance trust and love in the relationship? Your guess is as good as mine.
NO ONE WILL EVER BE PROUD TO INTRODUCE HIS/HER SPOUSE TO SOMEONE WHOM HE/SHE INVOLVED IN SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH BEFORE MARRIAGE.
Since it is a shameful thing to tell people especially your spouse about the feelings you hold for someone else, is it not better to keep your self from sexual affairs given that the relationship may eventually not lead to marriage.
MOST MARRIED COUPLES WISH THEY COULD REWIND THEIR YOUNG AGE IN ORDER TO CORRECT THEIR MISTAKES.
Avoid doing any thing in the name of first love which you will regret. Many have gone through that stage and are not any better. They are full of regrets.
MOST MARRIED COUPLES STILL KEEP THE PAST EXPERIENCE OF THEIR FIRST LOVE, CONSCIOUSLY OR UNCONSCIOUSLY IT IS HARD TO FORGET WHO DEFLOWERED YOU. SO SAVE YOUR HEAD.
Deflowering a girl is meant to be done in marriage. It endears your spouse to you and make the experience everlasting and worth living for.
Virginity in a man helps him to love his wife and see her as his first love.
But if all this things take place outside marriage, it may still be bond between the two, which becomes a curse when they could not get married.
The feelings may eventually lead them into infidelity and their by cheating on their spouse. To avoid this, try and keep to Gods law.
Extract from my book “SEX EXPOSED”. YOU CAN ORDER FOR YOUR COPY OF THE COMPLETE BOOK. Text or WhatsApp to: 08037730716
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