Four steps in building an enduring home as a couple

If you say welcome to our house you only introduce someone to your physical structures like your sitting room, your upholstery, or perhaps your bedroom. You can show someone your building, in this case you show the colour of paints, the design etc When you say welcome to my home, or this is my home, it means where you live with all the beings around you, your husband, wife, children and if any other relations living with you.

Everyone is important, but home have greater value and influence than buildings or house.

Building a home is eternal.

Building a house is temporal.

Your children can grow to build a better house but what happens in your home as parents will go far with your children in their journey for building another home.

We will try to compare house with a home and see the difference


They work together but never the same.

Now see the descriptions of a home πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

One’s own dwelling place; the house or structure in which one lives; especially the house in which one lives with his family; the habitual abode of one’s family; also, one’s birthplace.

One’s native land; the place or country in which one dwells; the place where one’s ancestors dwell or dwelt.
The place where a person was raised; Childhood or parental home; home of one’s parents or guardian.

The abiding place of the affections, especially of the domestic affections.

These descriptions πŸ‘πŸ‘ above should give you enough insight into what a home should be

Compare that to this πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡
The descriptions of a house

A structure serving as an abode of human beings.
The mode of living as if in a house.
The usual place to find an object or an animal.
A structure to protect or store something or someone.

Can we get anything out of this?

What are you building?
A house or
A home

Building a home is eternal, but a house is temporal

Your children can grow to build a better house but what happen in your home as parents will go far with your children in their journey for building another home.

House 🎀

to build a house πŸ‘‡
You only need physical materials such as wood, cement, labour, nails, etc

Home πŸ’šπŸ’š

to build a home πŸ™πŸ™
You need good attitude or characters as parents to build a home

Steps to building a happy home

  1. It begins with your spouse
  2. Your relationship with your neighbours
  3. Your relationship with your children
  4. Your relationship with God

Home is a factory where we produce the next generation.
What happens in the home goes a long way influencing the next life as a husband, wife, or a friend

Materials for building a homeπŸ‘‡πŸΏπŸ‘‡πŸΏ

I will drop them point by point,

  1. Good attitude
  2. Honesty
  3. Love and affections
  4. Respecting one another

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