Marriage counselor pastor Bisi Adewale shared 21 careless ways you are the number one enemy of your marriage.

21 CARELESS WAYS TO BE THE NUMBER 1 ENEMY OF YOUR MARRIAGE
Bisi Adewale
A man came to me and said Pastor Bisi, I messed up, I destroyed my Marriage, I hurt my Wife, I treated her badly, now she ran away, it is now I realized my foolishness, please help me beg her to come back, I thought a Demon is fighting my Marriage, I just realized I am the Demon.
You can actually be the Demon that will destroy your Marriage. You don’t need to look for the number one troubler of your Marriage if you want to know him or her just look through the Mirror.
You maybe thinking there is a Demon somewhere troubling your Home, you may be right, there is a Demon, but you are wrong, it is not the Demon you think, the Demon is in your Bedroom where ping your cloths now, I mean you if you want to be that Demon in your Marriage just do the following:

  1. RARELY PUT OUT EFFORT TO MEET YOUR SPOUSE NEEDS
    Don’t bother to meet your Spouse’s needs, but put a huge demand on him or her to meet yours, cry like a Baby, sulk like an infant, throw tantrums like Toddlers just to get your needs met.
  2. MAKE YOUR SPOUSE BEG FOR ATTENTION, AFFECTION, AND PROVISION
    Be married to yourself and make your Spouse beg you for attention and affection. Never make any provision for your mate to be in your own world. Be the Emperor in your little empire.
  3. BE MARRIED TO YOURSELF
    Yes, marry yourself, be totally affectionate with yourself, and be selfish, self-centered, and stingy
  4. MAKE YOUR SPOUSE JEALOUS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX IN YOUR LIFE AS YOU TAKE CARE OF THEM AND NEGLECT HIM OR HER
    Give attention to other Females and Males around your office, Church, and Neighborhood
  5. SLEEP WITH WHOEVER YOU LIKE AND BRAG ABOUT IT, AT LEAST YOU ARE THE OWNER OF YOUR ‘THING’
    Yes, you own your ‘thing’ and nobody has its copyright of your “we we”, you just use it anywhere sleeping with anything in a skirt or trousers.
  6. PUT ALL THE BLAMES ON YOUR SPOUSE
    Be always right, you are a righteous Man or Woman, you cannot be wrong. Put all the BLAMERS on your Spouse
  7. CRITICIZE YOUR SPOUSE EVERY TIME
    Don’t just blame but criticize your Spouse like the head of an opposition party.
  8. CONDEMN YOUR SPOUSE IN PRIVATE OR IN PUBLIC
    Don’t only criticize, don’t forget to condemn. Talk I’ll of your Spouse dress sense, outlook, manners, parents, upbringing, etc.
  9. BELIEVE YOUR MARRIAGE WILL BE GREAT EVEN IF YOU DO NOT INVEST TIME AND EFFORTS
    Just relax, believe your marriage will be great without you raising a finger. Don’t spend time at home, don’t spend time with your Spouse, make no effort to improve your Marriage, believe it is the work of the Angels of the lord to grow your marriage.
  10. LOVE YOUR FRIENDS AND SIBLINGS MORE THAN YOUR SPOUSE
    Be far from your Spouse, let him or her become a distant friend but be very close to your FFF, Friends, Family, and Fans.
  11. DRESS ANYHOW AND SMELL LIKE AN UNKEMPT TOILET
    Look totally unkempt, be dirty, never give regard to hygiene at you are the owner of your Body
  12. LEAVE THE HOME WHENEVER YOU WANT AND RETURN WHENEVER YOU LIKE
    Live without Geography. Just go out without telling anybody, be unpredictable
  13. ABUSE AND ACCUSE YOUR SPOUSE REGULARLY
    Bad Mouth your Spouse regularly, abuse, abuse and cause him or her until he or she has a brain reset.
  14. SCOLD YOUR SPOUSE AS IF YOU ARE TALKING TO A KINDERGARTEN
    Scold your Spouse in the Public like Nursery Child, talk to him or her the way you will talk to a Kindergarten
  15. LET YOUR FAMILY BE IN CHARGE OF YOUR FINANCES AND PUT THEM FIRST ABOVE YOUR SPOUSE
    Collect your Salary and distribute it among your Family Members, let your Wife or Husband begs them before he or she can be taking care of.
  16. BE FINANCIALLY IRRESPONSIBLE AT HOME, SPEND YOUR MONEY THE WAY YOU WANT
    Don’t make any money, don’t go to work, just relax and enjoy yourself, Angels do bring Money, expect the Angels, just keep checking your Phone for Miracle alert.
  17. LIVE LIKE SINGLES DESPITE BEEN MARRIED
    Live like a Single person despite been Married. Go out whenever you like, sleep wherever night catches you, make sure you have your toiletries in your Bag, you may not need to come back home often.
  18. NAG YOUR SPOUSE SO MUCH THAT HE WILL BE AFRAID TO COME HOME
    Be an expert Nag, nag sense into the foolish head of your Spouse. Talk repeatedly until he or she comes to her senses.
  19. NEVER LEARN ABOUT MARRIAGE, YOU ARE AN EXPERT, TEACH EVERYONE YOUR FOOLISHNESS
    Be a Professor of Marriage. Teach everybody about love, sex, and marriage but never learn, don’t read, don’t attend any seminar, you don’t need all these; don’t ever forget you are a Prof.
  20. HATE SEX LIKE ENEMY AND ONLY DO IT ONLY WHENEVER YOU FEEL LIKE
    Have a very deep hatred for sex. Only sleep with your Husband whenever you feel like, hate sex with passion, and do everything possible to avoid it.

CONCLUSION
Well done, if you do any of these regularly, you won’t need any demon to destroy your home, you are the DEMON.
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ⒸBisi Adewale

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