HOW TO HAVE BLISSFUL AND FRUITFUL MARRIAGE AS A COUPLE. PART FOUR
Topic: WHAT COUPLES SHOULD DO IN THE INNER ROOM.
Inner room is not only for intercourse, inner room is a time for couple to stay alone without any third party. Not even the children.
In marriage, it is normal to tolerate one another because nobody is perfect. A woman may overlook the husband not buying her cloths or given her money regularly. A man may condone the wife’s attitude and manage her meal. He may tolerate her attitude towards the children and others around him.
Both partner may quarrel but quickly make up in the inner room. But what happens in the inner room will determine how long the mood will last and how the excitement will be. What happens in the inner room will determine if the quarrel will be over or become worst.
Emotional satisfaction is an aspect in marriage that must not be compromised. Joy derives from staying together as couples is valuable beyond gold and silver. When a partner is denied this satisfaction, he/she may leave silver and gold behind to seek for it
Some people may be forced to use money to seek for emotional satisfaction outside their marriage which is not healthy for marriage at all.
SEE WHAT YOU DO THAT AFFECT THE EMOTION OF YOUR SPOUSE.
Inner room is not only for intercourse, inner room is a time for couple to stay alone without any third party. Not even the children. I am not referring to how much you are able to satisfy your sexual fantasy of course this is also important. After sexual satisfaction what next…these are what you do that affects your spouse emotions as a couple:
1). When you carryover your anger into the inner room
2). When you have refused to talk to your spouse because he/
she offended you earlier.
3). When you refused him/her intercourse because you are not
4). When both have refused to exchange pleasantry in the
innerroom because of unresolved disputes
5). When you deliberately resist advances from your spouse
WHAT COUPLES SHOULD DO IN THE INNER ROOM
Educate your spouse with this write up, don’t read it alone. If possible, discuss it together if truly you desire peace and progress in your marriage, if not you may ignore this piece of advice. These are what you should do in the inner room as couples:
1). It is a place of forgiveness
2). It not a place to apportion blames or to know who is good or
3). It is a time to discuss on issues with passion and pardon.
4). It is a place to settle differences with love and romance.
5). It is a place to talk about us and family not office work.
6). It is a place to give your body to one another regardless of
what have just happened.
7). When you did not deny yourselves that emotional attachment
and satisfaction, nothing can
come between two of you that you cannot resolved.
8). Whenever you decided to deny your partner that emotional
attachment and satisfaction, that is the beginning of the
death of that marriage. To you, you may think you are
punishing your partner, but you are actually killing your
9). Emotional attachment and soul ties is what God have put in
man to sustain marriage no matter what happens and make
it worth living for.
Please, take to my advice today as couples, never create a
vaccum in your partner else
something else may fill that for you. Pray it is not your enemy
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ROMANCE AND PASSION WILL NOT DIE IN YOUR MARRIAGE IN JESUS NAME. AMEN.