COUPLES ARE COMMANDED TO BE FOCUSED AND FAITHFUL IN THEIR MARRIAGE.
“ Prov. 5:15-23 Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well. Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets. Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee. Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger? “For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth all his goings. His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins. He shall die without instruction; and in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray”.
As a husband, you are commanded to enjoy everything in your wife.
Nothing to be ashamed of, everything in her should satisfy you and for you alone.
Also, the Lord warned husbands against adultery.
To the lady, your body belongs only to your husband and not to strangers. Your husband has the right to your breast and every aspect of you, that is exactly what the bible says, not me.
You are not to cover anything from him as your husband, nor to be ashamed of your nakedness before him.
COUPLES ARE NOT TO PRETEND ABOUT THERE LOVE FOR EACH OTHER
‘There be three things which are too wonderful for me, yea, four which I know not:
The way of an eagle in the air; the way of a serpent upon a rock; the way of a ship in the midst of the sea; and the way of a man with a maid’.
No matter your age as a man or woman, the moment you get married, you are to share the same perceptive as regard to love, expression of love, fellings and sex with your spouse. You don’t act as a boss while she does not need to act as a maid, or the other way round.
Rather couples are to see themselves equal emotionally when it comes to expression of affection towards one another.
Love is psychological, the moment a partner is unable to freely express his / her feelings and enthusiasm in your presence, the partner can never have satisfaction, he or she may be with you but still yearning and dying for love. It means he / she is not free with you. You may be getting satisfaction but that your partner can not.
Do everything within your power to make your partner free with you starting from conversations, expressions of feelings and mutual sexual satisfaction. This is exactly what the above scripture is trying to explain.
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