Six COMMON LIES GUYS USE IN SLEEPING WITH LADIES
Men are well known for telling a handful of unbelievable lies when they find a lady attractive and wish to take her to bed, both the married and single.
Once you find out about it or maybe have your doubts, most of them are willing to go an extra mile by swearing with their lives just to convince or prove you otherwise.
- I AM READY TO SETTLE DOWN
Majority of ladies don’t know this but let me take some time to make it clear. A man who is ready to marry you will never let you know until he has decided and is 100% sure that it is you, that is only when he will come forward with his plan by asking you to marry him.
A lot of women this days keep wondering how a man they’ve known for years will leave them and get married to someone else….few weeks later. The only explanation to this is that he was just using you to warm his bed all these years while making plans to marry another.
So beware when a man comes to you singing about him being ready to settle down.
- I HAVE TOLD MY MOM ABOUT YOU
98% percent of ladies fall for this. Once a man tells them this cheap lie, they start creating an abstract of their wedding day because they believe once his mother is aware of their relationship, nothing else is stands on the way.
Don’t be fooled… Don’t fall too cheap. You are not marrying his mom, so why should that be the reason for sex.
If his mom even knows about you, is that the license for sex?
Until God approves it (after proper wedding), you are not licenced to give him your body.
Many people can scam a wedding party just to have a lady…not to talk of ‘I have told my mom about you’re
Wake up ma.
- I AM THINKING ABOUT GOING TO SEE YOUR PEOPLE
This lie pops up when the lady is very stubborn and would not give in to his selfish demands.
He already knows that she loves him but isn’t willing to open it for him unless he comes to see her people.
The next thing that comes to his mind is to start telling you about his fictitious plans about coming to your place. He might even go as far as asking you to give him some heads up about what your kindred brideprice list looks like. This trick might convince any lady so beware!
Because he is calling and talking to your mom on phone is not strong enough to give him your body.
- WHEN ARE YOU COMING TO SEE ME?
Men are known for this. Every now and then, they keep asking when are you coming to see me as if he is admitted in hospital.
Don’t go and see him alone. He may drug you. He may rape you.
Fix appointment in an open place. Don’t tempt/test him by sleeping at him place… afternoon or night.
Every act of sexual intercourse rewrite your life story…it is a spiritual language.
- I HAVE INTRODUCE YOU TO MY FRIENDS
My dear fine lady, this is a lie; don’t trust him even if he does.
Truely his friends can even be calling you “our wife” even when they know you are not in top 10 in his real girlfriend or sisters in the fellowship/church.
Don’t trust him because his friends are calling you “our wifeoooo”.. 90% Na scam.
His friends approval of you is not as important as your parents’ approval; yet your parents’ approval is not as important and must be complied to as God’s approval.
God’s approval for sexual intercourse is after the Wedding and Wedding Ceremonies.
- COME AND SEE MY PARENTS
My dear, most guys will bring you to greet his parent and immediately you left, they would tell his parent that you are his friendoooo or school mate.
Wait for proper family introduction before you you start using your resources for him_
….and wait for the proper family supported and involved wedded before you start giving him your body.
Don’t get wedded without your parents and siblings involvement….it will back fire oooo.
Apart from the fact that it is a sin to have sex before #all the wedding days; sex with him when you are not yet wedded is an unforgettable unpleasant ‘testimony’ that you will regret of in life.
Aunty, don’t trust him so much and started advertising him until you are really sure of his personality.
All these Facebook advert of a month’s relationship must stop…wait till after family introduction…
Lastly, no matter how friendly and caring he may be, don’t fall into the hands of a pretender.
Never trust anyone..
Value yourself as a lady and don’t rush to fall in love else you would regret in the end.
FOLLOW THE DUE PROCESS PLEASE
- The #Peace Test (God Factor)
- The #Pastor Test (Priest)
- The #Parents Test (All parents)
- The #Partners Test (Prayer Partners/Friend)
May God give you Understanding.
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