The first thing your husband need from you as a wife.

The first thing your husband need from you as a wife
By Akindele Victor.
Many women don’t know why they were created. There was a need God discovered else  there will be no need for creating a woman. As a woman until you understand your primary purpose of creation you may not be fulfilled and the man with you may also never be fulfilled in life.

Today there is what I called ROLE SHIFTING  in marriage because women are actually looking from men what God created them to do for men.

* Have you ever ask your self, what is a matured man who is
     ready for marriage looking for in a woman?

*  a man who is matured for marriage will begin to look out for a
    partner – what does he want?

*  why is it that when a man have issue with his partner, the next
    thing in his mind is somewhere to go or another Lady
    to sleep with.

*  have you ever noticed it is easy for a woman to stay single
    after loosing her husband, in fact some will never remarry. But
   why is it difficult for men to remain unmarried? Have you ever
   given that a thought?

*  among the two gender, who result to drinking most when they
    are depressed or worried. I know your response will be
    MALE FOLKS. But why? What do they think of getting by

*  among the gender which one die more of heart attack? Is it
    not men?

Then what is the nature of man?

GENESIS 2:20-25
20 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.

21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;

22 And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.

23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

2. ISAAC:  GENESIS 24:67
67 And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was COMFORTED after his mother’s death.

Your husband will remain lonely in marriage if you can not make him HAPPY.

The cure for loneliness is HAPPINESS.

If you don’t have a sense of humour, please try to get it as a lady.

HUMOUR means expression of mirth particular to the human species; the sound heard in laughing; laughter.

* Something that provokes mirth or scorn.

*  A fun person.

♦ (expression of mirth) cackle, chortle, chuckle, giggle, guffaw, snicker, snigger, titter, cachinnation
♦ (something that provokes mirth or scorn) joke, laughing stock

(intransitive) To show mirth, satisfaction, or derision, by peculiar movement of the muscles of the face, particularly of the mouth, causing a lighting up of the face and eyes, and usually accompanied by the emission of explosive or chuckling sounds from the chest and throat; to indulge in laughter.

(intransitive) To be or appear cheerful, pleasant, mirthful, lively, or brilliant; to sparkle; to sport.

* emotion usually following humour and accompanied by laughter; merriment; jollity; gaiety.

* That which causes merriment.

A man once told me that he results to going out to watch football leagues with friends because the wife is not fun to be with, she is boring.

As a woman, you have all it takes to create happiness, an unforgettable atmosphere around a man, but you can’t function well if you wait to get this first from a man. Today, women complains ‘he does not make me happy “. Play your role as a wife then you will be amazed at the result you will get.

Signs that men desire happiness always
1. Efforts to have multiple lovers
2. Inability to endure singleness
3. Loneliness without a partner
4. Promiscuous living
5. Higher mortality rate than women
6. Love for games, sports, clubs etc
7. Attention to their jobs or career

In conclusion read this
Understanding the nature of man
For you to go along with any man you just need to know how to laugh and create an environment of peace and happiness.

For counseling contact me

Pastor Akindele Victor

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