YOUR MARRIAGE AND THIRD PARTIES Part – 1
WHO IS A THIRD PARTY ?
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Our topic today is
Who is a third party?
This is a person who is not a party to a contract or transaction but has/have but an involvement. The third party normally has no legal rights in the matter, unless the contract was made for the third party’s benefit.
A third party can be your child, your spiritual leader, your parents, friend, colleague, outside hobbies and interests, sports, In-laws, friends, church members, among others. Most of these items are not bad in and of themselves. Yet, when they come in between a couple’s love, they could be destructive.
A marriage is only as strong as what it costs to protect it. In other words, you value what you invest in. Marriage is an exclusive club. Marriage is a two-person arrangement, leaving out all other parties. This is why wedding vows often include the phrase, “forsaking all others.” Boundaries in marriage are meant to create a safe place for one’s soul; third parties can become disruptive to this safety.
Marriage is a union between a man and his wife and not a man, his wife and the entire extended family or friends. Of course these people are necessary in ones life but they should have their limits when it comes to family matter in order for peace to reign in that marriage.
Most marriages today do not work not because the husband and wife aren’t meant for each other but because third parties are being allowed in the marriage.
Many marriages have been destroyed by the interference of the Third Parties. Third Parties Affect Our Marriages
WHO ARE THE THIRD PARTIES IN YOUR MARRIAGE ?
- Siblings( brothers and sisters)
- Colleagues ( workmates/ business associates, etc)
- Driving School instructors
- Micro finance institutions and banks
- Women /Men Groups, etc
Every spouse wants a successful marriage. However, marriage is said to be great when it is free from the interference of any kind. Aside from human interference, there are other things that could interfere with marriage such as social media, television, games and even negative emotions like anger. These are just a few.
Every marriage is prone to interference but your willingness to overcome all these is called protection. When you are successful with this and free from third-party interference, there is this feeling of happiness and satisfaction in your marriage.
Nobody wants to have intruders in their marriage. However, besides praying about it, we need to work out ways to protect your marriage from third party interference because “faith without work is dead
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